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Getting back with an ex any good stories?

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Bumpandus · 09/02/2020 18:12

So basically I was seeing a guy for a few months like 7 years ago we were really young and when he told me he loved me I ended it.

We just started talking again randomly on social media and he’s met me once and I feel like we are going to get back into a relationship it’s such a weird situation but we have no drama in the past. I just don’t know if exes should stay in the past or if I should give this a go??

Any stories??

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youngandconfused99 · 09/02/2020 19:59

I don’t personally have experience with this! But I think you could look at it as fate! You weren’t ready 7 years ago, but you are now!

LouisaJenny · 09/02/2020 21:15

Do you feel like you want to get back into a relationship with him? Maybe like PP, you weren’t ready then but are now.

RLEOM · 09/02/2020 21:20

Seeing as it didn't get too serious before and no bridges have been broken, I think giving it another go shouldn't be a problem.

katscamel · 10/02/2020 09:53

Similar situation... I went out with a guy when I was 17ish (so many many years ago) and dumped him for being too nice. A few years ago we met up again via Facebook and a mutual friend and went out for a while. I found it difficult as he kept mentioning things we'd done back then (ok so long ago was about 25 years ago) and I've lived a completely different life, he seemed to resent this. It worked though, for a while. It can be worth giving it a try but try and see it as a new relationship not a continuation of before. See the first few dates as you would anyone else...a time to find out about each other .... and go from there.

Bumpandus · 03/04/2020 19:16

Update it didn’t work out I realised I just wasn’t in to him at all and that’s probably why it didn’t work out the first time 😀

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