Morning. First post so will try my best to explain properly.
So every other weekend my children go to their dads from Friday after school to Sunday. On the Friday my partner works till 1.30am and I always pick him up. I was absolutely shattered yesterday and I feel asleep when he called on his break at 9.30pm so he could tell I was tired. He asked if I was still picking him up and I said yes I will be there to rescue him.
I took another nap at 11.30 and set my alarm for 1am. Alarm went off, last thing I remember. Stupidly had my phone on silent so notifications didnt wake me up. I had fallen back to sleep and woke to two missed calls 5 minutes before his end time. Then a text saying "Are you ok?" Then 5 more missed calls 2 minutes between eachother. I quickly called him and he started ranting and raving. I said I'm so sorry I fell back to sleep and my phone was on silent, all I got back was "well that's f*ing helpful for f*k sake, I'm nearly home now anyway" then he put the phone down on me. He got home and I was waiting on the sofa and he came in and could tell he was in a major huff. Came in the front room and wouldnt sit next to me on the sofa (he always does so he was making a point) I said to him "why are you reacting this way, I'm really sorry i didnt plan to fall back to sleep, I'm just so tierd" he replied "just stop and go away" i was like what! You are reacting like this over a lift home from work when you always say you dont mind walking. He just kept saying "go away" I asked him if it was because he was worried if something had happened or because he just wanted his lift and that's all I'm good for, a taxi service.
Just would not speak to me, I got upset and he just ignored everything I said. Went to bed and he still wouldnt acknowledge me. I rubbed his arm and he didnt pull away like he has done before when we argue and he replied goodnight when I said goodnight but I'm just not looking forward to the silent treatment today. He is still asleep and I just know our day alone will be shit. Supposed to be going ice skating and having fun.
I know his cousin passed away in a car accident when they were like 17-18 but if he was worried about me surely he would of just said it rather than throw a tantrum. Am i right in thinking that he is more pissed that he had to walk home or does it sound like he got a fright. This is how he reacts to every argument we have. He wont communicate and goes in a mood and I have to guess what hes thinking.
I'm just feeling so guilty and such an idiot for not getting up as soon as my alarm went off cos I even though "damn I'm going to fall straight back to sleep" then that's they last thing 😔