Getting Married in 10 days. Cold feet?

[Bookaholic73]

What exactly are cold feet?
10 days till I get married and all of a sudden I’m worrying about all sorts of things, wondering if I am making a mistake etc.

Has anyone else had this, just before getting married??

I had serious cold feet and I wished I'd paid more attention. 10 years later pretty much dominated by ea, we are finally separating

Well marriage is esse totally a one way ticket TO dealing with his family permanently OP so if there are issues I'd consider those as part of the package- anything else is unrealistic.

Does he have kids with his ex? If so she isn't going anywhere either. What about her behaviour is the problem?

Marriage isnt something you have to do, nor is it urgent so no, I wouldn't go ahead if I wasnt happy with what I was buying into. The fact the things arent his fault doesn't make them less tangible. Ignoring doubts never ends well and frankly the fact some people stay married means very little. A happy marriage is one where both parties are legitimately content, it is not defined by how long it's lasted. You only have to read on here daily to see how many people are in marriages for a litany of reasons other than wanting to really be there.