My husband and I have been married three years and have a one year old baby. I’m starting to feel like our marriage is going downhill and I need reassurance. We don’t really ever argue but I’ve recently started noticing how little he does around the house, or for himself in general. I guess it’s always been this way, but I think now I’m exhausted from work/baby balance I’m noticing it more. He never does any housework unless I ask him to, and even then I feel like I’ve asked the world of him. I try to leave things until he notices but I just get sick of it. I try to explain my logic how it’s fairer if we both do a job rather than me doing two but it goes in one ear and out of the other. I do really love him but this is getting me down and I want to deal with it without nagging. Any help would be appreciated