Abuse

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My husband feels the need to break my things and will not allow me to lock my bedroom door because he constantly breaks the lock. Then he either destroys one or two of my things or knocks furniture over. I’m almost 65 and find it overwhelming to move all my stuff out of here. Is there a way out?

If this is for real it is utterly shocking. You need to ring the police this is violence against you. Do you have children who can help support you?

Bump

Your husband is abusive and you need to call Women's Aid.
Look at doing the Freedom Programme, you can do it online or as a teacher led course through Women's Aid.

Also buy the book by Lundy Bancroft Why does he do that?

Do you have any other kind of support? Family or friends?

The way out is to call the police everytime and instigate divorce proceedings. It might be painfuil but it's the only way.
I've been there and would not grow old with him.