Dating

[Sparkless]

I met this man after he did some work at my place of work, we flirted.
And he kept finding excuses to come back.
We have now met up a few times
But the conversation becomes dirty straight away and he comes
Onto me straight away, saying how amazing I am.
However this was too much too soon for me so I called it off. Saying it was too much too soon but he kept messaging me,
He wanted it to continue and he said we would take things slower.
So the next time we met it was great however the next time he got really dirty again, asking me to get myself off in front of him or give him my knickers.
I’m all for an exciting sex life but am
I right I’m thinking this is too much too soon??

Yes, you're right

I would also imagine you're not the only former business client he does this with. Sorry, he sounds a like a sleaze.

Yes I also think it is too much especially when you have already told him it is but he has carried on. He has warped boundaries and I agree, a bit of a sleaze.
Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with it if you both mutually want it. But you don't.

He sounds creepy tbh