My husband and I have been together for 7 years and we've known eachother for about 15 years. We were in the same friendship group at school though both of us only speak to a few of our old friends now. One of them contacted me yesterday, I haven't heard from her in about 10 years, we had an argument right before we went to seperate uni's so we never really spoke again after that. She said she wanted to tell me something she probably should have told me years ago and that she'd wanted to but never had the courage to speak up about it. She asked me if I remembered when her and my husband had a bit of a thing with eachother and I do, this was a few years before we got together by the way, I don't think it was very long before we fell out. She explained that he had pressured her into having sex with him, she said no but he made her feel guilty and like she should do it so she did. I was really shocked to hear about this, It's not something I'd ever expect from him at all. I vaguely remember that day because I was with him and then he left to go and meet up with her, he'd even told me that they were going to have sex but I had no reason to think it wasn't a mutual agreement. I brought it up to him last night, he said as far as he was aware it was something they both wanted to do, I asked if she'd said no at any point and he said he doesn't think she did but it was years ago and he doesn't remember details but he wouldn't have slept with her if she didn't want him to. It's a difficult situation, being my husband who I love i don't want to think he did something like that but I also don't want to not believe her, I don't see a reason why she would tell me so many years later if she wasn't being truthful.