No sex yet..am I stopping this progressing?

[BattyCake]

Dating 2 months. Exclusive but no relationship chat. Not sure if we are in one?!

Haven’t had sex. My decision. He’s said he’s happy to wait. Been close to sex since date two really

I’m mid thirties so don’t want to get closer to someone again that ends up not lasting. But I’m wondering if not having sex is stopping the relationship developing? I love sex and would love to do it with him but I just don’t want to put myself in a position where I feel vulnerable. But then I do feel there’s a gap between us because we’ve not done it. I go round in circles...

Been a few years since my last relationship but I remember with that one I just had sex and didn’t worry much about it and it all worked out.

You're over thinking it. If you like him and you feel you would enjoy yourself then knock yourself out!
Don't put so much on it. It may not work out. But for now, you are enjoying yourself so enjoy yourselves!

Probably yes, in answer to your question, but perhaps you shouldn't be in this relationship. Is something amiss? You don't say anything good about him. Are your instincts trying to protect you?

Take your time, nothing wrong with that.

PP makes a good point though that maybe there are some other reasons you don't feel comfortable having sex with him?

Yeah, think that it depends if you're waiting because you're not sure about him, or if you're waiting for waiting's sake.