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Need some company

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JJPC · 05/02/2020 20:49

Hi there,

Tonight my horrible husband is out on a date with someone else. If you saw my other thread you’ll know that he’s unpleasant, that we’ve separated and that I’m trying to move forward but this hurts. It really, really hurts.

He didn’t tell me he was going out but he’s been seen by an acquaintance of mine whom I told about my marriage breakdown. That kind of adds to the humiliation to be honest.

How do I get over this? I can see that my marriage wasn’t healthy and possibly abusive but I still miss him.

OP posts:
yesterdaystotalsteps123 · 05/02/2020 21:07

Watch some Stephanie Lyn coaching videos. This is not about you. Emotionally abusive men will abuse any woman they are in a relationship with. You have to feel sorry for her and congratulate yourself you are on the road to recovery

JJPC · 05/02/2020 21:56

Would I find them on you tube? I guess I can look anyway

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yesterdaystotalsteps123 · 05/02/2020 22:15

Yes she has a channel on YouTube and when I'm having a wobble I watch a couple. Narcissists move on to new relationships very quickly and she explains all that and just goes through its because they don't have a deep emotional connection with anyone. Of course it hurts but it's also empowering knowing their tactics

Fairycake2 · 05/02/2020 22:33

Make a list of all his bad points / things you don't like about him. I found this very therapeutic and was a good reminder to re-read when I was feeling sad or missing DH

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