Feeling so shit.
After a long time single (years) I started dating. Online. Met a lovely man, went on a few dates, texting every day... he was super keen. Constantly telling me he really liked me. I liked him Aswel. Anyway he has definitely cooled off lately on the texting.. like short messages with no questions in ect. You know in your gut you just know? He used to message me all evening but now he doesn't.
We met on an app, he told me he wouldn't be messaging anyone else or anything as he was only interested in me right now. (I am super naive i know)
I deleted the app as I was still getting messages and I wanted to just concentrate on one guy rather than have several on the go. Again I realise I'm naive.
But my gut was saying he's just not into me anymore so I went back to the app to see if he has been on and yep, was active a few hours ago. He wouldn't have been checking mine as he knew I deleted it because I was getting lots of messages.
It's fine, I won't lie I am gutted as I liked him a lot. I'm not going to message him again or anything and get back on the app and get myself back out there!! I don't need advice as such but just to vent really, feel crappy because he really did keep saying he liked me a lot and built my confidence up, now it's just been torn down. We do have a date planned Friday but that won't be happening now. I think once I stop initiating texts he won't try anwyay.