So having tried everything possible to maintain our relationship,I’ve gone with the cool as a cucumber approach this last few weeks. When he’s pissed me off I’ve let it slide and just stayed out of his way.
Clearly the lack of drama has rankled and he wanted to get rid of “the tension” at the weekend. Cue arguments, lost tempers, cold shoulders, him being the victim, me shouting and him packing bags because I couldn’t “talk to him like an adult”. Eventually I told him this was making me ill and I didn’t want to continue debating. He then decided he didn’t want to leave if I was unwell. Told him I was just sick of the dance and he had to take responsibility for whatever he wanted to do. Apparently it was my fault he packed bags and he didn’t want to go?! So I said that packing bags felt like a betrayal and on that word he said “I’ll show you betrayal” and left...! Telling me that it’s exactly what I wanted. WTAF?!