Hi everyone . Me and my boyfriend have been together for ten years . I wanted a baby a lot sooner than now but he didn't feel ready so we waited . I was convinced some times that he would never want a baby but was surprised when he randomly said he's ready . We have been trying for about 6 months . He was pretty eager the 1st few months always taking about what it will be like ect . But the last two months we rarely have sex . And he hasn't mentioned about trying any more either . Thing is we are in our 30s so I don't want to wait much longer either . He just doesn't seem excited anymore . I would try every night and He told me that me wanting it all the time is a big turn off to him . So I don't try at all anymore . Him saying that has made me feel a bit paranoid about trying it on and also I kind of got a phobia of it now . When we go to bed I just feel so akward and wait for him to make a move which never happens . I did mention this to him
Last week and he said we don't do it no
More because I never try it on ! I can't win. Also when ever I mention to him if he still wants a baby and it's ok if he has changed his mind he loses his temper . I'm so tempted to tell him that it's pointless and I'm going to go back on the pill . What has made me think twice is also the two times he has had a drink he has mentioned if it doesn't happen in the next few months he doesn't want one . Any words of advice on what you think is going on here. Thankyou