DD’s Teacher

[ElizabethHarleen]

Can not stop fantasising about DD’s teacher!
It all started just okay, I saw him and thought well you’re beautiful.
But it’s become stupid. I think about him all the time. I get flustered at pick up and drop off.
I take the approach of the more, duck and cover woman. If we do have to talk I acknowledge what needs to be said and run off. I don’t look in his direction, definitely don’t make eye contact, and avoid him in all ways possible unless I have a concern about DD. Which is rare.

I haven’t had a crush on anyone other than a celebrity since I was in High School. My DD’s dad was just something that was built.

This guy has me nuts.

I used to go to the school a mess. Straight out of work, no make up hair chucked in a bun. The mornings were even worse. But I can’t stop my self from making sure I look good beforehand now. And I’m worried it’s obvious, the change and I look creepy. But I don’t give him any attention so I’m hoping I come off normal.

But I just want to jump him.
Has anyone else ever felt this way about a teacher, and how do you control your hormones at pick up
I could never date him, there’s no way for anything like this to spark, so I need to just get passed it, but my god he’s so pretty.

Not a teacher but another parent! I ended up having a 6 month thing with him though so I’m not great at giving advice on how to get over it! Just imagine him really gross naked! Like he’s got a really hairy back or a weird penis 🤔 maybe don’t think of his bits! I presume your child will have a different teacher soon enough though, maybe september.

If your single, what’s the issue?

F#$k him and enjoy it 😂

If you're single, find out if he is. But if you're gonna ask him out wait till the end of the academic year

Oh god dont be that mum. I think its a sign your life is dull and you need to either rrfresh your relation or start dating.
Nobody will think you smartened up for a teacher no body is watching you that closely with a spreadsheet of what you worr and whicb days..., lots of parents have scruffy and smart periods depends on work, time, mental health...etc.

Just imagine him laughing at you as his stalker in the staff room and other teachers knowing to watch out for you. That should reel the crush back in.

I say this because we had someone like that at work who was so obviously crushing on a coworker. Once he left we bursted into laughter. He then moved on to crush on the receptionist. Turned out he aaked for the number of several coworkers. He was going through a tough time where a lot wasnt going his way and going through a divorce and an identity crisis. He had lots of appointment with us nearly every week so developped a familiarity i guess. We had to be professional and nice to him as people often come to us distressed.

I have this problem with my sons teacher. He wanted me to talk to him about something the other day I said oh do I have to

Yes. Me.
She is a female teacher. Turned my whole life upside down. Literally.
No advice but You will get over him one day.

It will pass, and it's fun to have a crush.

But if you're single, I'd say find out if he is! When hes not your DDs direct teacher....off you go

I dont think you'd have the guts to do that though judging by your post ... just enjoy the view and let is pass

It so isn't fun to have a crush! They're tortuous.

Oh god no ignore pp, don’t try to date him. You don’t even know if it’s reciprocated imagine how embarrassing that would be. I always find it hard to believe that people on mumsnet are as upfront as they claim to be. Teachers should be off limits. Saying that I do have a massive crush on my ds teacher. But I wouldn’t dream of pursing it. I agree with pp who said it says something about your own life and maybe you need to get out there and start dating (not the teacher)

I wasn’t really expecting anything back the hairy back thing is very intriguing.

I would say that maybe I’m missing something exciting, but through social media and text I have quite a few men that I talk to ( I haven’t dated anyone in almost two years now) because none of them really intrigue me. So I just chat to someone here and there and get bored soon into the whole thing and never end up meeting anyone.

Just this one that I want an evening with :’) .
The one that’s unattainable
Sod’s law I think it is.

I’m so sure I would enjoy it.

I had a crush on my DDs truly gorgeous, awesome teacher. Swoon. Unfortunately, it was the year I split from my horrendous ex and my father died. And i didnt have headspace to do anything about my crappy looks. I think he probably guessed cos I got a bit rambly with him. It's unsurprising really. He's beautiful and great with kids. Dream combo. I was actually happy about my daft crush. As it was a sign I was moving on. It was mild though. And i joke about it with my mum. Would still fuck him into oblivion given half a chance though!

Oh I enjoy a good crush. There’s someone really cute in my village and I get butterflies when I see him and it brightens my day. Makes me feel alive and as long as I don’t make a prat of myself by acting on it (he is happily married, so am I) then where’s the harm? Even if he suspects, who cares? I always like to think there’s someone somewhere with a crush on me too!! (highly unlikely, but still!)

I’m shagging my DS’s teacher.

In fairness we are married and were together long before our DS went to his school 🙂