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simplebeing92 · 31/01/2020 19:26

I met this lovely lady over 2 months ago, we got pretty serious pretty fast.

We was dating for around 1 month and a bit, but i did start to overthink a lot as ive got trust issues from a previous relationship.
She broke up with me last Sunday over text message. she said she doesn't think she is ready for a relationship yet BUT..

We still talk, she still says she loves me, and she wants me as her "booty call" as such.

She keeps asking me to meet up etc, but always cancelling, so out of the 10 times shes asks we meet up maybe 1-2 times.
if i message her on whats app she doesn't tend to reply often.. she knows im still in love with her, i feel like she is taking advantage of me, knowing im always here.
i basically tell her i want to talk to her more and i always try meet her more, but she always either stops talking to me, or tells me she feels suffocated.

What do i do? do i stop talking to her, and move on with my life?

Its very confusing for me as shes the one who tells me to come see her etc, but shes also the one to cancel, she tells me she loves me but then shows different. ?

please share your opinions.

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simplebeing92 · 31/01/2020 19:29

also she always talks about her ex? doesnt really bother me but sometimes i feel like she does want him back even though he did leaver her for another.. and today she had a meeting around 30 mins from home. but she had to collect little one from her ex (baby dad) its been over 1 hour 30 mins now since she went to get her and she hasnt messaged to say everythings ok? kinda worried.. do i just stop talking now? and move on...

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simplebeing92 · 31/01/2020 20:02

BUMP

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Robin2323 · 31/01/2020 20:06

Sounds like she's not over her ex and using you to starve off loneliness.

It's not fair on you and if you let her do this she will lose respect for you.

Keep busy and draw back.

Delbelleber · 31/01/2020 20:17

I think she is wasting your time

simplebeing92 · 31/01/2020 20:27

thank you for your responses.

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anothermamaa · 31/01/2020 20:34

She's a selfish idiot. I'd stop contact and move on OP Thanks

simplebeing92 · 31/01/2020 20:39

thank you, ive since blocked her, she messaged me instantly on snapchat saying why have i blocked her, i simply stated, i got to move on, she doesnt need me, and i wished her all the best. its hard and it will be hard..but surely i have to put me first.

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anothermamaa · 02/02/2020 20:35

Well done op . Wishing you all the best

anotherdisaster · 02/02/2020 20:49

You've done the right thing. Don't let her mess you about any more. She's not a nice person.

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