Ok so I'll give you a bit of background. I had an email a week of so ago asking for participants for a tv show about hypnotism I sent an email as it said £50 would be given if you was called to casting. I sent the email and forgot all about it.
Today at lunchtime I received a phone call telling me I had been successful. Dh came home for lunch whilst I was on the phone. I explained what it was and that I had been called to an appointment that would take an hour and i would receive £50 and if I was successful I would take part in the tv show.
Dh went back to work and I received a messaged saying it wasn't safe for me to do that and being hypnotised would be unsafe as anything could happen to me. I explained to him that I would be completely safe and that I wasn't planning on taking part I was just going to go for the free £50. He was sending text after text so I tried to reassure him that it was safe and went as far as saying I'm sure there will be younger more attractive people there than myself so they will most likely get picked.
Well shit hit the fan massively. He was telling me I couldn't go and I was insulting him by even suggesting I would want to do this. He said I was taking the piss organising this behind his back and that he wouldn't have married me if he knew I was going to be like this he said I wasn't working as a team and had insulted his intelligence. I pointed out that he was being possessive and controlling and said I was more than capable to decide whether i wanted to do this or not. He told me the relationship was over and that he was not coming home from work.
He has told me i have caused irreversible damage to the relationship and he can't get passed this. I feel all because he didn't get his own way and I said I would still go. Do you think this is controlling? I do!