Suffering

[Swife]

How long do you think someone should suffer from past indiscretions(no cheating)? I created an issue with trust in 2009, extremely suffered for the next 2-3 years and now I've realized I'm still being made to suffer. When is enough,enough?😕

Bloody ell his behaviour is appalling.

Please go and get some counselling for yourself. You need to talk all this through with a qualified counsellor.

Are there any dc involved here?

@Swife My bad. He must be a good person because his rages aren't solely directed at you. He's BP after all and there's nothing he can do in order to alleviate your suffering such as adjusting his medication, working on strategies and having therapy.

I'm sure his boss walks on eggshells around him, cos that's just 'what's he like.' Life just needs to unfold like a giant cushion and prevent him from experiencing the consequences of his actions. I'm sure, since he can't help himself, he smashes chairs and throws other people's property at walls and they just shake their heads and let him get on with it because 'he can't help it.'

Bless him. Wish I was you, what an enviable position you are in OP. You're living the dream!