NC for this.
I've had herpes for about 15 years. Never caused me any issues. Rarely have flare ups, I've maybe had a handful over the course of 15 years. It's no longer a 'big deal' to me because it has no impact on my daily life, but I get it has a stigma.
I've been on 3 or 4 dates with a guy I like a lot. Last time we met up we did some heavy kissing and a bit of sexy touching etc. Nothing whatsoever that would have put him at risk at all.
Next time we see one another, sex may well be on the cards. So, I need to tell him that I've got herpes. But how do I do this?
I keep thinking over the convo in my head but I honestly just can't find the words. Can anyone help? What would you say or, if you be been in my situation, what have you said?
When should I tell him? During our next date? Should I text him before rather than tell him face to face?
I'm scared of him rejecting me which is making me nervous. I realise he may well decide to pack it all in and although I'd be gutted, it's his prerogative. However to complicate things further he is a colleague (although mostly at a different office) so whatever happens I'll need to see him again!