Feeling head over heels and not sure if he is? Wait it out?

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Should I wait this one out? Only been two months and he seems interested but secretly (at least I hope it’s a secret!), I am head over heels already.

It’s making me feel very anxious at times as I worry I’m getting more and more invested and I can tell where he is at! He’s always keen to meet and spend long periods of time together (a day or overnight each time). But I’m not sure he’s as keen as I am?!

That should say and I CANT tell where he is at!

Also don’t want to ask after only a handful of dates.

I met my new man a week ago and had
4 dates so far! I'm in no doubt how he feels but I think this an exception to the rule tho!

Usually I get a strong feeling someone is into me! But I’m never into them so I think it’s the fact I feel this way so strongly that is making me wonder if he feels the same?!

Ask him.

“So I like you, and I think you like me...so what is this?”

I think he’d say I like you too and want to keep seeing you. Then he’d kiss me.

But I wouldn’t get anything further from him I don’t think.

I don't think you'd be insane to just ask him. I'd appreciate your honesty if someone said that to me. Either way.

What can I ask though? I’ve already told him (in bed!) that I like him, when we’ve been cuddling. He’s said it back and said he enjoys seeing me.

Not sure what else I can ask really to calm my nerves!

Ah OP this is the exciting bit! You’re both feeling your way, don’t really know what it is or where it will lead...

My advice is to enjoy the roller coaster and stop feeling the need to get it defined and controlled too early!

It doesn’t feel exciting, it feels horrible!

I'm with @Mandarinfish I love that feeling and it's exciting! I'm jealous, completely single here 🙄

Love that new relationship feeling. Enjoy it!

How do people love this! I just don’t know what to make of it all! I don’t like not knowing

I'm with you OP I don't like not knowing either...I like to be the one in control 😬

But I’m never into them

Could the strength of your feelings be somehow connected to the fact that he is doing the opposite? I know that's how it worked for me. In fact he was just apprehensive of spoiling our friendship so held back.

Give him a chance to ask you. Or ... just ask him.