He left me after ten years for another woman, said he was in love with her, not with me and how since our eldest I stopped making an effort in relationship or with myself (appearance, plus not wanting to go out/do stuff), we stopped communicating etc. I thought it was just normal life after a baby and would get better, he apparently felt this way a while yet didn’t talk to me about it and said it got to the point where his feelings just went/he didn’t miss me when I wasn’t there etc and how he couldn’t carry on living the rest of his life like that. He had only been getting it on with the OW like 2 weeks before leaving and I think he only left at that point due to her telling her HB and him threatening to tell.
Is this the script ? PS he is in his 40’s