He ghosted me 3 years ago ...now he's back...cheeky sod?

[simplyreds]

I was seeing him 8 months.
Thought things were going well.
Then he caused a argument and disappeared.
Stopped replying to texts /answering phone calls etc
Anyway found out he had a new GF and 4 months later she was pregnant.
I was heartbroken
Fast forward 3 years and obviously now I find him repulsive.
No interest in him whatsoever
He sent me a friend request on Facebook and messaged me
"Hiya how are you"
Cheeky sod?
How dare he...does he have no shame ?

Block and ignore!

I think this is technically known as 'haunting'....obviously no shame.

I would not accept the request, and block him so he can see you have.

Sounds like he's recently single and fishing for a shag.

I would have to reply, "Oh do fuck off" before blocking him.

Ignore the message. He can't see if you've opened it. Leave the request hanging and have a snoop one night of his Facebook before blocking, helps pass a boring chunk of time. It'll wind him up knowing you've accepted his request and then binned him off without a word.

It's a Hoover. Hes on the prowl. Dont respond. Block everywhere. It's a benign test Hoover to test degree of success.

"Hi I'm fine thank you, sorry, but do I know you?"

(FB version of "New number. Who dis?"

Heh I did that with a long ago ex who tried to throw me over a staircase amongst other things. Said I couldn't place him and who was he. Tbf his photo didn't help me place him at all. He's aged badly.

If ever there was a perfect opportunity for a ‘do I know you?’, it’s this.

Ooooft I love the 'Sorry, who are you?' approach! Either that or a laughing emoji and a middle finger, followed by a block.

Just a simple block. Way more dignified OP.

Block and ignore. Sends the best message!

This happened tk me too, although 6 months after a brutal ghosting! Either block or just give a dignified ‘I’m fine’, leave it be!

Oh I had this.............

I sent back fb emoji of a zombie waving. That was it.

But I probably should have ignored it.

Leave it on read and don’t reply 👍

"Not only surviving, but thriving" should cover it.

I'd send a 😂 emoji and then block.

I wouldn't even block. He isnt that important is he? Just ignore his messages and dont accept the request. Far more powerful leaving people on "read"

Ignore.

Any "witty" comeback is fuel to his fire and proof you still have any kind of feeling.

Block if you feel you might crack.

Ignore the fuckboy.

Don't block, just ignore.

Just ignore, it’ll drive him mad. And you too a little bit as the urge to message is there, but it’ll be worth it.