Last year my partner told me he had no interest in having any more chn (we have a DD who is 3 yrs old). Sadly after sometime dealing with the emotions of no more I got rid of everything baby and decided to enjoy what I have.
Recently my periods have been all over the place and although I've been consistently taking the pill, and had a few trips to the GP were my pill was changed, I've fallen pregnant. I thought I was before I even took the test yet was still so shocked when I saw the line. I was so worried about telling my partner as I knew how he felt. He was, like myself, very shocked and soon started questioning me and accused me of doing this on purpose. He said to me after so many years how has the pill now failed, as we've never had any scared before. He also said how can he now trust me if I've done this. But I really haven't... yesterday he apologised and said he shouldn't of said what he had and that it is what it is and we'll have to just deal with it. But I don't necessarily feel he actually feels this way. I also don't know how to feel about how he initially reacted, is that what he actually thinks of me?? . We've been together for 8 years, been living together for 5. Why would he think I'd do him like this?? Why would I put myself and a baby into the mix knowing how he feels??? I just don't know where to go from here, how do we move forward??