Snapchat issues

[Loulou2208]

So me and my partner had previous issues with snapchat. A found out a year after we got together he still snapchatted to his ex as well as poking her on Facebook and constantly creeping on her page. He denied all this even though I had the proof and eventually I forgave him. He deleted snapchat for a while.

Fast forward 2 years later. He downloaded snapchat again a year ago and there has never been any problems until now.

I am currently 16 weeks pregnant with our child that we conceived through ivf after his previous vasectomy.

I know find that the last few days he has been adding younger girls to his snapchat. He has no contact with these girls that I know off so why I add them on snapchat to look at their selfies.

I already feel insecure with my changing body and weight gain and seeing he his adding other girls to his snapchat makes me feel worse.

Am I being unreasonable?
I plan on telling him I have noticed his snapchat to see what he will say. Probably that I am over reacting like last time.

How do you know, are you monitoring his phone?

He sounds like a sleazeball, and definitely not good father material. I'm so sorry you are having to confront this while pregnant .

I was sitting beside him when he opened the app and seen he added these people and it said say hi underneath their name

I’m sorry but you were sitting close enough to read all this, and he wasn’t trying to hide it?

You couldn’t possibly have memorised their names and then looked them up. If you’ve snooped at his phone just admit it, the talk will be easier if you are honest

I could quite easily remember the names and they weren't in his chat list before so I didn't snoop. I know of the girls so thats how it was easy to remember who they are.

You have to confront him.

They may be a simple explanation but maybe also one you don’t want.

So you personally know who these younger girls are then?

No I don't personally know them but I know their names as they live not far away

What's it to you @Shev1996 ?
Are you op's dp?

Op of course it's not acceptable. He sounds untrustworthy and your relationship will always be rocky if that's the case.

I never understand why men do shit like this, like just have a wank to the 10000000000s of porn pics available online.

Oh gosh how awful and unnerving for you OP. I don’t have any specific advice. I’d be livid and really worried. And I’d wait until he was asleep and have a good look through his phone for nefarious activity.

Are these young women on his SnapChat minor celebs or something like?
How does he feel about being a dad again?

It seems like he didn’t appreciate you, during the time he was looking at his ex’s social media profiles.

Hope you are ok OP

How old is he? Because seriously no grown man uses snapchat unless they have things to hide.

Thanks sadiesnakes. I felt like Shev1996 was trying to make out I was lying or something.

No they arent minor celebs just people from our town.

I thought he was delighted about being a dad again cos that's what he told me but now I think has he done the whole ivf thing to keep me happy as he thought I would leave him if we didn't have a child. Why I told him I wouldnt.

I just feel he is being shady and there would be know other reason other than to look at the selfies of these attractive women while I look like a whale.

Has he given you cause for suspicion?

Hi, OP.

When it says 'Say Hi' under their name on snapchat it means that they are a new contact on there and they haven't started a conversation yet.

Hope this helps a bit

Can I just say that if he is doing anything wrong it's absolutely not to do with the way you look.

At 16 weeks I can't imagine you're very big anyway but please don't think that that's the reason x