This is a really difficult post to write so apologies if it's unclear. I think my partner is emotionally abusive. I am unsure but, he's really not nice sometimes let's call it that. I think it's affecting our DC. Any talk is a no no, he acts oblivious to any misdeeds. It's all my doing or fault. I have found out he's not been taking his antidepressants, just cause. His mood has been awful, so that is linked. His depression is not the issue. I have suffered really badly with anxiety and depression so I have understanding. However, he will.not engage in any chat, treatment, is very non talkative, on occasion drunk and nasty. His behaviour over the last few years has caused.me anxiety and I think, many other stress related symptoms and some of the things he has said have been really awful. Now, he speaks to me as little as possible. I don't know if it's reasonable to leave your depressed DH really. I feel disloyal. What do you think and thank you.