Marriage Counselling - experiences good or bad.

[HGranger]

We are taking the plunge and have marriage counselling booked for this evening. I wished we had decided to do it earlier, but husband wasn't keen until I made it clear it was last chance saloon.

What are everyone's experiences good and bad?

You have written about him at some length previously. I think you are going to find that this marriage counselling this evening will not go all that well.

Joint marriage counselling is not recommended if there is abuse of any type within the relationship. Your H is just stalling for time here and he certainly still knows how to play you like a violin.

Counselling for you alone is a recommended course of action.

@attilathemeerkat I just struggle to see it that way. I'm sure most women say this, but I just can't see that in him. It's so difficult to see things clearly. I'm soft of hoping this will help.

I am someone who struggles with feelings of guilt and I know that if I don't try this I will blame myself, and forever feel like I didn't do everything I could.