I have been seeing a guy since late Nov but differing schedules and Xmas break have made things complicated. We had a misunderstanding and didn’t chat for a few days but agreed to meet up on the weekend. Both looking forward and felt we needed to do this to regain momentum / get things going again and finally see each other in person! He has been keen so far and I am too. Can’t really go into details but had been going really well and seemed like things were heading exclusive but there was an annoying (resolvable!) spanner one the works at an early stage.
On Sunday we had a vague time in mind and definitely a place, I messaged saying I was looking forward but could we do x activity after y activity. He said fine. I then asked a couple of hours before if we could possibly move to a couple of hours later as I was feeling delicate (he knew this) but if he couldn’t do later, that was totally fine let’s stick to original time as wanted to see him. We had only agreed on timings late the day before and had both said we were around most of the day hence why I asked. But didn’t want to properly reschedule or cancel!
His response was to do yesterday evening. I said great, we chatted. Yesterday lunchtime he then said he was being hammered at work so wanted to let me know in advance without letting me down last min. I said sorry to hear, thanks for letting me know etc. Final text from him late afternoon saying best to cancel as was mental. Again I said sorry (we work in similar, full on jobs!) and expressed sympathy. Do I just leave it now?