Am I overthinking

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So every thread I see about viber seems to relate to cheating. I was using my DH phone tonight as I often do (he gave it to me while mine was charging) and noticed he had it on there. Now I googled and saw that it isn't preinstalled and I know nobody he talks to at home or friends use it. I clicked on it and it went to home screen as if it had never been used....as in sign in. However data had been used since October.

So he has obviously installed it and used it and deleted the account every time right? Or is there another explanation?

I was so panicked I deleted the app! Stupid mistake I know, but I thought I'd wait and see if it reappears. Then he might be suspicious and hide it though.

So am I being paranoid or does it sound suspicious. He has been extra nice for a while now too. Works from home more to look after the family etc. I've just felt off about things, but cant put my finger on it and he certainly isn't the type you would expect this from....but they never are!

Any viber thoughts out there please?! Sat feeding baby whilst DH is happily sleeping and cant get the thought of him cheating out of my head

I’m not sure this is helpful but Viber is just like WhatsApp. It’s not a dating app.
It’s just a messaging service.
But just like WhatsApp you could use it for messaging someone.
I used to use it but now don’t- and only just for messaging friends (I’m married too).
On its own - it means nothing

And if he’s spending more time at home and being nice..maybe he’s just being nice?
Is there more you worry about?

Thanks for the reply. But then you wouldnt be deleting everything including the whole account after each use would you. That's why I'm worried. I know it's been used from the data, but hes left it looking on the face of it like it hasn't been.

We havent shared a bed for ages due to issues with cosleeping toddler. Over a year and maybe grown apart a bit. Had a period of being grumpy with me, then every now and then flowers for example for no reason. Now being extra nice. It all feels off, and I've never felt this way and they say trust your instinct

There has been some speculation that whatapps will become inactive on certain providers (android for example). Could he have been trying viber out to see if it worked the same. I've recently started doing that with Telegram, incase I need to replace whatapps.

Would you be feel comfortable just asking him?

I hope that the issues with the little one resolve themselves quickly and you can find your way back to each other.