Is this date on or off?!

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Meant to be meeting tomorrow at midday. We’ve met every weekend for the last 4 weeks, so this is only date 5!

After last weekend he text saying he’d had a nice time. I replied saying the same. He instigated contact on mon tues and weds, I instigated it on Thursday. We had a short text chat. Not heard from him since even though he’d said a few times he was looking forward to the weekend.

I know I should probably text but as I am already quite invested (tho tried to keep this to myself as early days!), I don’t want to chase really. I think I need to try and work out if he’s as interested as me and the only way to do that is to sit this out?

But I don’t know?! WWYD?

Oh he works weekends as well as in the week sometimes so he might be at work today (can’t remember what he said!) but he’s able to text so not sure it’s relevant really

Ask him, we don't know!

Haha thanks I think

Ask him!!!

Do you have a place and a time to meet? If so, I think you should proceed on y tg he assumption it's confirmed and happening.

If you still don't know where or when you're meeting, I'd be thinking it was either off, or he's a bit of a flake.

We discussed it and arranged a time yes.

Just think it’s odd he wouldn’t message the day before?!

I would usually text someone but I like this one a lot so want to understand if he feels the same...

I don’t think texting him is going to help me work that out

He's initiated contact three time this week, to your once. Maybe he's decided to wait and see what you do

Just text "still on for Saturday"
Don't overcomplicate things

I’m really into him tho and that’s why I’m pulling back...I know I want to see him but I don’t know if he feels the same or as much

Just text him!

He’s instigated contact three times already this week, maybe he’s waiting to see if you’re bothered like a PP said.

I don't understand why you are giving yourself angst. Text him then you can prepare for the date or make other arrangements.

Text him and ask...

He messaged 3 times to your 1.

Just send a text.

So?

If you already arranged the time and venue just go. No reason to think he's not going to show

rather than "are we still on" you can txt "looking forward to seeing you under the clock at 3pm Sat" (or whatever you agreed)

The date was supposed to happen on Sunday...