Good afternoon to yous all, I am new to this and just looking for some advice/opinions from yous if possible please.
So here goes iv been with my current partner for 6yrs we both have children from our previous relationship and a 2yo together, while our relationship hasn't been perfect (who's is) we have fought hard to
get to where we are today.
So my dilemma is that after a 5 month break we had 3 years ago things seem so much harder, my man slept with someone during that time(won't tell me who) we had our little 1 2 year's ago but my oh's ex (who I think it may have been) seems to constantly be their all the time, she calls txts for things that are not needed, and while most of the time it seems to be concerning the children it's not things that she really has to call or txt for if you know what I mean. Iv told him it's like their are 3 people in the relationship and while I understand it must be hard for him coz she will stop him seeing the kids if he upsets her I seem to be the 1 getting upset in the process. He mentions her just about every other day and it's really grating on me, she gets her way with everything, and I feel as tho my feeling come second, I definitely should come 2nd to his children 100% but not his ex, Iv discussed this with him more than I care to think but it just doesn't seem to change. I could write on this matter all day but it seems long enough already, so if yous need any more info to help me out feel free to ask, thank you to anyone who has the time/patience to read and respond x