Hi All,
After a very difficult period and a big argument, my wife said our relationship was over in the first week of November. I accept a lot of responsibility for the relationship problems and I have apologised and said I would like to save the marriage.
Since November, I have made a lot of changes but I appreciate it is maybe too late.
Generally we have got on ok since November and I am living at home, in the spare room.
I have suggested divorce to my wife 3 times now and have said that I will do anything to avoid it and don't want it to happen, but we should start the process if her mind is made up. My wife doesn't seem ready to divorce and doesn't want to begin the process, but doesn't want to work on fixing the relationship either.
I have suggested marriage guidance many times and this has been rejected.
I am completely stuck. I want us to remain married and fix our relationship more than anything, but don't know if this is possible.
We have recently started talking more about general things, not our relationship, and I wonder if this is a positive?
Any advice appreciated.