I have been with my partner since I was 16, we have been together now for 8 years and have 2 kids together. I haven't been happy for a very long time, but I never seem to be able to end it because he always makes me feel sorry for him. He doesn't help with the kids or around the house. He calls me awful things when we have a small argument. I can't go anywhere without 100 questions, even when I go to the gym for 45 mins 3 times a week, he makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong, there have been several occasions he hasn't came home after nights out and so much more I just can't fit it all in. But basically, I think I can't end it because I will feel guilty that he has to move back to his mothers and he just plays the sympathy card every time. I've told him before that I'm not in love any more but he just doesn't here me. I feel selfish but surely I deserve to be happy?