Anyone else had this?

[kerryanna98]

Things are getting to me at the moment, last night I held my daughter and moved over to my partner so we could all cuddle and he moved up the bed and moaned, but yet when he wants sex or anything he gets it (I want it too). But sometimes he'll reject me when I cuddle him etc. I feel really drained, I feel awful about myself at the moment, lost so much weight, 4 PP, my boobs have disappeared since birth. He's never ever complemented me since before we was actually together, never told me I look nice nothing, I feel empty and alone lately, last night I faced the other side of the bedroom whilst I changed into my pjs.. guess I just want to get it off my chest, see if it's normal for your partners to never make you feel good etc?

Of course it's normal - if they are nasty fuckwits.
What do you get out of this relationship now?
Do you have family and friends close by for support?
Do you work?
Do you have equal access to money.
Does he put you down?
Does he make horrible comments?
Does he ignore you for periods of time?
What has he said when you have mentioned this to him?

Did you ask him why he moved away when you wanted to cuddle?

Why would you want sex with a man who doesn't make you feel important?

Why would you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't make you feel important?

Have you spoken to him about how you're feeling?

Perhaps he was hot- ask him. Tell him he hurt your feelings.