Recently, it got revealed that my boyfriends ex (they only dated for like a month) had been stalking me online for the past year and a half.
It wasn't just that she was casually checking out my social media profiles, but full-on digging for every piece of information she could get on me, including following me on various forums and managing to find all of my throwaway accounts etc.
Truth is, I posted some really personal stuff about my insecurities and relationship worries and I was naive enough to think no one would see it. I never used any real names but somehow she managed to find tons of information on me.
The reason I found out was because she had been sharing this information with a supposed "friend" of mine, who then brought it all up as a way to cause drama and try and split me and my boyfriend up.
I feel exposed, humiliated and unsafe. I don't know what to do. I have obviously now blocked both of these women on all of my social media accounts etc. I don't think I can get the police involved because everything they found were on public forums.
So I'm posting here for advice because its the only place I might be safe for now and I really need some reassurance. I am even paranoid that somehow they will see this. But I also don't want to let them win by making me scared to ever post anything again.