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Dated with cheater

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Bumblebee30 · 14/01/2020 12:38

Hello everyone,
So for the past 5 months I was kinda meeting-dating one guy , I met him trough his company was using his company services and we just started talking and he seemed amazing ,very intelligent good managers and brilliant sense of humour, I really really liked him . He told me that he is divorced and has a child . But later on I found out from my colleague at work that he was doing the same thing to his girlfriend after she used his company services he kept texting and phoning her asking her to date him offering to go on weekend trips obviously she said that she have boyfriend and to leave her alone she had to block him because he didn’t stop! And then I found out that he is very much married from same colleague as he have done some research on that guy and was planning to tell his wife if he will continue to text his girlfriend...I was mortified and heartbroken told him to never contact me again and blocked him . But now my friend is telling me to inform his wife with what kind idiot she is living cause that means he is up to any woman on this earth... I don’t want to do that I don’t want to destroy someone else family and life but my friend said I won’t destroy But help I’m torn feel very sorry for his wife... don’t know what to do any advice?
Thank you

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BillHadersNewWife · 14/01/2020 13:05

It's not your problem any more. Don't tell her. She may know...or find out soon anyway. What if she has mental health issues or a parent who is dying or a sick child?

Leave it.

NomDeQwerty · 14/01/2020 13:09

I'd tell her with evidence.
She can then get herself STI tested and make decisions about her own life.

Bumblebee30 · 14/01/2020 14:27

Was thinking the same just leave it and it’s not my problem anymore, but I feel horrible I feel a lot of guilt never thought that I will end up in this situation, my partner was cheating on me for 2 years and I would of wish that someone told me earlier than I found out cause we are not getting younger and deserve the best life we could have.

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