I had a major crush on a guy at my old work, a few people said we could suit each other ( both 30). He keeps himself to himself a lot. He’s clever , fit, seems nice etc. I spoke to him at the Christmas party once and we were flirty . After that I just fell to bits n just couldn’t bring myself to speak to him .
Anyway to cut a long story short he added me on snapchat a few weeks ago. He doesn’t have any other social media and the add doesn’t really mean much I guess as Snapchat isn’t it exactly high value communication . Should I ask him for a drink . He hasn’t asked me so I’m assuming he’s not that interested but part of me wants to just find out before I can move on and just forget it . Is this a bad idea? I don’t work with him so wouldn’t have to see him again .