Hello to you all.
I'm sure I'm not the first or last to post this but can you help, advise , enlighten me please.
My question is that I have a 14 and 10 yr old and am in a financially abusive relationship and need out now as it's broken me into bits. Please ... I am so desperately worried about my children and causing damage to them. I feel I will be failing them . How do I approach this ? With both him and them to minimise damage / emotions ?
My eldest is so aware that my husband withholds funds from me and I have to ask daily for money. She's broken down in tears saying I need to ask family to tell him to give me money as it's not fair.
He seems to think it's ok ... and is very quiet about it all, avoids conflict, stays happy ... I have a feeling he avoids it as knows I may flip if given half a chance !!!
Thanks for any advice you can give 😊