Heya all. I’m 32 weeks preg with a toddler of 2 year. I’ve moved here in UK and its been 3 years. I spent most of the time of my first preg with my family in my home country and 3 months before delivery i came in here and started living with my husband.
Ever since that day with my first preg he was not that much supportive as i was expecting him to be. He used to pinpoint housechores and used to criticize me on different things. Even when we used to fight he left me crying for hours and hours even in my last month. Anyways my toddler was born and he was my birth partner as there was no one else. After two weeks i flew back to my parents and stayed with them for 3 months.
Since then over relationship is always like this ... arguing, fights, criticism. But still i managed to satisfy him in all the ways i could. He wanted to have second baby so i agreed to it knowing that how much its gonna be diff for me with a toddler and no one else here in UK.
From the day my preg started i had many issues like acid reflux and basic preg problems. At that time i realized i was doing all this because of him. And all he was doing at that time for always saying me look at the house look at our son. Why you have been doing all day. You don’t do anything except sleeping.
Today i am 32 weeks preggers so heavy and so in pain all over my body. Everynight i sleep i am not able to change side bcz of pain in all over my body. I have to do all house chores, look after my toddler all day long, cook food and whatsoever i can do.
Still whenever i asks him for a favour like to give bath to my toddler or make his bottle. He starts criticizing that what i do all day long and he’s been obeying my orders since forever. And it just breaks my heart that why don’t he realize how much i’m suffering with still i am trying to do my best.
I can’t bring it all to my family or any of my friends. Have anyone been through the same situation? How they managed?