Soooo...hard to believe I'm even posting about this because it is so rare that I come across a guy that I am even remotely attracted to, but there is finally someone of interest.
So the situation is that he is my DD's music teacher and he comes to our home for a weekly lesson. We are only two weeks in. I don't know much about him but we chat a bit at the end of the lesson before he leaves while my kids (ages 11 & 13) are present and chatting with him also lol. I'm a really slow burn when it comes to dating and relationships. While I like the look of him and he seems nice I wouldn't feel the need to jump into anything should he return the interest...but I am wondering how to at some point work out if he's seeing anyone (no ring so I'm guessing not married although I know that doesn't necessarily mean that he isn't) and if not with anyone, how to put out any hints of interest and seeing if it's at all reciprocated bearing in mind my kids are around.
Also given that he is my dd's teacher and I think he's really great at what he does (one of the better teacher's she has had) I wouldn't want to do anything to possibly mess up that arrangement either. To preserve this arrangement (especially as it's new)I would be ok to just totally forget it and keep everything professional since my interest is very mild and I do enjoy my life as is. But I think it could be nice to date again (it's been a while) if this was a possibility. What would you do?