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Advice please

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Lmmm82 · 07/01/2020 16:49

Hey ladies, just need some advice on a situation;
I dated a guy for a couple of months, we were both so passionate with each other and had a true bond. The sex was amazing! He then started saying this won't work in the future and was scared of a relationship. We argued a couple of times, but we always managed to work things out. After 5 days of no contact he started to message me again and I phoned him up, he apologised for some of the things he's said. He said that he was lonely, he missed me and liked me and wanted to restart things. Then I saw him back on a dating app, I screen shot his profile and sent a text on WhatsApp to him-I told him I thought he was being genuine about restarting, but he was just full of lies and bullshit and manipulating me again into liking him! He responded by saying he wanted an open vibe, which is massively insulting. I then blocked him on WhatsApp. I posted an Instagram story about letting go and accepting that people aren't what they claim to be, he reacted by saying 'or maybe what you want them to be'. We both then went on to have another spat and he said he'll stop communicating with me. He doesn't seem to acknowledge that he's used and disrespected me.

Am I being stupid for feeling sad about losing him?
Do I wait a couple of weeks/months, unblock him and see how he reacts?
Or do I move on for good?

Why do us ladies always fall for dickheads!!!

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Lmmm82 · 13/01/2020 13:41

No tpr93

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