That's it really. Don't want to go into too much detail as I feel I may be flamed (ie, can't be that secure if you're thinking about someone else..) but can you have a meaningless crush as an adult if it is someone you know but you also wouldn't dream of ever doing anything and you love your partner very much and are as attracted to them as you were when you first met?
I feel soooooo guilty someone is popping into my head (esp as it's DPs new friend). IS this normal? I'm struggling with the guilt. Its like unwanted thoughts I can't seem to shake. I have a great relationship with my partner and this is making me feel uneasy because I'm not used to keeping things from him, but I can hardly share this with him!