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[Newusernane]

Where to start. My son punched me and my husband is angry at me for bleeding. I love them both so much but I can't live like this. I left yesterday but am at a loss of how I can fix this.

How old is your son...?

You leave and you stay away...

I am not sure you can fix it.
Maybe your son but that depends on his age and why he punched you.

As for your husband hes not worth your love.

If your son is an adult then yes you leave and stay away. If your son is only young, then its your DH you need to leave in the first instance and get help for your son.

Where are you now?
Do you have any support?
Have you contact the police/domestic abuse agencies?

What's the history? ie has he done this before, does he have mental health/SEN, how old etc?
Is your husband also violent?

He is 11. My husband has had a rough 2 years.

How old is your son OP?

Why the hell is he punching you? My 11 year old son couldn't hurt me if he tried ....what's going on?

Why did he hit you OP?

I know its hard and you must be upset but giving short answers and very little information means posters cannot offer advice or support you.
Do you think you could say what happened and why in one post?

Thank you. I'm safe, I feel like I'm at an impass today and not sure which way to turn.

Pity.... I asked him to get off his phone. I'll get this thread deleted.

There really is no need.
Posters will be able to offer advice and support especially if you have nowhere to turn.

My own son was violent so I do know what it's like OP and I found some great strength and support from MN.

Turn to police or social work for help with your sons behaviour. It’s only going to get worse. Sorry OP.
Your husband is unreal. Good luck OP. Take care.