I recently ended a brief 3 month relationship. He's a lovely bloke but we both have a few personal issues to sort out. We have stayed in contact nearly daily.
At first I was quite unsettled and upset even though I finished things and then I had dropped a few things I had of his at his house. It was slightly awkward but friendly and we hugged as I left. We have been in contact daily since then including 3 phone calls from him today.
However I have this overwhelming gut feeling that I shouldn't throw the towel in with this one. I cannot put my finger on it. I still find him very attractive, we still talk about very important things in our lives and are generally as open and trusting as we've ever been. I'm the first person he's seen for longer than 4 dates in about 2 years and he's often told me I am the only person he's fully trusted in years. I have to say I find myself trusting him a lot too and I can tell him anything.
I'm really unsure what to do. Ending things with him was the first time I've ever met my head rule my heart. Obviously I would want us both to fix over the other bits of our lives that we needed to sort out first. But something in my gut tells me there is much more to this that I first anticipated.
Has anyone else had a similar experience and was your instinct correct?