DH been back and forth over marriage for a year. I’ve been seeing a marriage counsellor alone and he agreed to go along to session on own, then to go as a couple. All sounds positive. However, he came back saying counsellor had reassured him he’s not a bad person (been treating me like dirt for a year) and said that the counsellor told him that they will be helping him assess if there is still a spark. Apparently right now there isn’t.
As if I didn’t feel shxt enough already about being treated like crap, DH is now getting help to see if he can delve deep to see if he can rekindle a spark for me. So, more hanging around till he decides his feelings plus still possible outcome of nah, I don’t want you.
Am I reading counselling wrong. Feeling pretty lousy.