I recently broke up with my fiancé after a relationship of 4 years. I'm mid twenties and was relieved to find myself fine afterwards, I actually was surprised but life has been busy and I'm excited for the future.
There is a lovely man at work. He's kind, hard working and physically very good looking. I don't see him much as we are in different departments but we text occasionally about work related things and I got to know him quite well originally as we started at the same time and hit it off over coming from nearby hometowns and similar travels in recent years.
He doesn't know I've broken up with my fiancé so I've never really been able to gauge if he'd be interested. He's definitely single.
So...really I would either have to somehow weave this into the conversation or just tell him. Or just ask him out for a drink myself.
I don't know if I have the strength to do that yet and I worry things would become awkward.
Can anyone shed some light on what they would do in this position? Or what they have done previously?
I'm aware I sound like a silly twelve year old but to be truthful I can't remember what it's like to be on the dating scene and I don't want to make an idiot of myself if he really isn't interested. I'm leaving in July at the end of our year so I could leave it until then.