I had been seeing a guy for over a year. In the beginning we would meet about twice a week and as he became busier it became once a week. We would also message every day. We went out for his birthday and then a week later he went on holiday for 1.5 weeks. When he came back, bar a few hours..it got to about 5 weeks that we hadnt seen eachtoher. I understood his parents were visiting from abroad (not staying with him) so he would spend time here and there with them on the weekend. During this time i would send suggestions of places to go (which we usually did), i would also ask if we could meet up even after work (we lived 30 mins apart). He would either ignore or say 'i dont know when im free'..i also sent an event which was ticketed, i asked him if he got a ticket and he said yes. I said why not let me know? As i wouldve needed to get a ticket too..he said 'lol i forgot'. Overall he just seemed a bit off. I told him i felt he was being offish and that he seemed so so about meeting up and why i felt that way.
He got angry, blew up and said i was complaining and thats all i do. I tried to explain but he wouldnt listen. He broke things off. Was i being too pushy? Or does it sound like theres more to it? Ive been kicking myself