Longest you've not spoken after an argument

[saynomore]

Hi everyone,

I've been married for 3 years and within those years we've had our ups and downs, like any other couple.
When we fight it gets pretty nasty and quite toxic. It then results to me asking him to leave do to this abusive behaviour.
We've once gone 6 months with out talking and living separately, and now we're in the same predicament.
I well aware that this isn't normal, but I do question whether I love him or not.
Because when he's gone I don't miss him, however, I find myself back with him.

Has anyone been through this? I would appreciate some advice x

Might help you to watch some youtube vloggers on narcissists. Melanie tonia evans is good.

Why have you accepted a long term relationship with someone you argue with so intensely you separate for months at a time?
Why would you choose a life partner with whom you can’t/don’t have sound communication skills with?
If you’ve already separated for 6 months, next time will be longer...what’s the point of this union?

Wow, if you managed 6 months before it's easy to do it again - just don't make up this time

20 minutes?

Where does he go when he leaves ? Is he with someone else ?