I met a man last year and even the first date was a disaster as he was so late and had to cancel. We met for dinner for the second date and it was good. However, after a few months of dating, I realised that he was unreliable, lying, disrespectful and emotionally unavailable. I ended the relationship but he continued contacting me for months. Even in the short time that I knew him he continuously asked me for money to book his flight ticket etc. I refused as I found the topic very uncomfortable.
I eventually agreed to meet up during the Christmas/New Year period. In the short time that we met, he managed to completely stressed me out - always on the phone, if not on the phone he was making jibes at me. We had some wine together and he later accused me of drinking too much and further accused me of bringing men to my house and told me that, "I should have self-respect..." I have not brought men to my house. New Year day he again accused me of having a man in my house.
This man has no respect whatsoever, he went through my stock, I sell online. When I asked him what he was looking for, he told me that he wanted something for 10 years old, his daughter. That's not all when we met, he told me that he has a 23 years old son, the next time we met he said, he has a 17 years daughter and this time around, he told me that he has 4 children.
On his way back, he asked me for £30, I gave him £20, by the time he arrived at his destination, he asked me to make a bank transfer for £100 because he wants to buy something in the supermarket, I refused. We are both in our 40s.
Yesterday, he has become distant, tried to ghost me - refused to talk. I have tried to block this man. Help me to get rid of this piece of shit from my life.
Please be gentle with me, I have not had energy after meeting this man - completely drained, low and depressed. Thank you!