Im in my 40s and have been in a relationship for 20 plus years. Sexless for number of yrs. Ive been trying to end it for over a year. But he wont.
Ive recently started a friendship with a divorced man whom I’ve fancied for a while.
Now it’s the new year i feel motivated to end it even if that means I don’t get home, dirt poor etc
Ive been told spend time figuring out who you are. Time being single. Time to separate mentally from main adult relationship.
Thing is, If its mutual I’d like to get to know slowly the single guy.
Id really like some romance, intimacy, fun. Sex. Before i hit 50.
Part of me worries about whether im codependent and knows Im emotionally vulnerable as this has been long, tough drawn out.
Part of me wants to have fun.
Any thoughts? Experience?