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[kerryanna98]

Hey, I gave birth 12 days ago to my little girl. I'm a first time mum and been doing great I'd say. I've had a really nasty case of mastitis and a abscess on my nipple. Been really ill sickness etc. Earlier I had shooting pains down my head and my partner said "oh well hopefully it's a brain tumour".. then was just about to start tea and he went "ew" to a stir fry I'm cooking. I feel physically sick and fed up.

Congrats on your lovely new arrival and I hope you are feeling better soon.

Not sure what you're asking but your partner sounds like a knob.

Congrats on your baby, take care of yourself , and perhaps rethink your relationship when you feel strong enough x

I'm just posting to see if anyone else would take it as a joke? Apparently that's what it was. It's just made me question everything. I could never say that to someone I love??

You know if it was a joke. You saw his face, heard his tone of voice, you know his sense of humour, he knows yours, you know if that's a 'usual' joke for yourself relationship. The fact you're upset enough to be posting makes me assume he said it in a nasty way and/or 'jokes' like that a lot and you don't like it.

Personally I think he sounds like a massive twat and even if that's the type of joke you say to each other when you've just given birth and are ill is not the time to make a joke like that.