Gender

[Userkc]

So I'm currently 28 week's pregnant and not with the dad due to his toxic actions. His have me no input on whether we should or shouldn't find out what the baby is but I really want to and he just said straighe up no, no questions asked that was final. Now we've split up do you think it's wrong of me to find out the gender and just not tell him after all it is my baby too and I should have an input? Thankyouuu.

Yeah I think you should go ahead. He cannot stop you

When you say toxic actions - what exactly does that mean? Toxic as in dangerous?

Of course you can find out the sex of your baby if you want to.

I think you should do what you want to. It’s your baby and body, so if you really want to find out the sex of your baby, you should.

Maybe consider registering the baby alone also.

You do whatever you want OP. You're being respectful and not letting him know so i reckon thats fine.

Btw, gender is just a social construct based on made up stereotypes of whats feminine and whats masculine. It's a load of sexist crap. They have no way of knowing the gender your baby might veer towards, but they can tell you what sex it will be.

Thank you everyone, really needed that I've booked an appointment, I just felt I guess really guilty😯 z