I’ve been with my fiancé for 2 years, it was his birthday a couple of days ago and he hid a message from his ex from me. I questioned him about it and it quickly escalated into a full blown row. I looked through his phone and found sexual images of her (and them together), which he’s kept on his
Phone since they were together- about 4 years ago. I went mental and he walked out- he drunk drove and went missing all night. I cut up all his tops out of anger.
Now he’s saying I’m the psycho and have no reason to be so angry at him. I’m not sure he’s even deleted the pictures now. How can I trust him again? What would you do? Please help me, I feel so alone. My confidence is rock bottom and I feel awful. There’s a 20 year age difference between us and I never thought an older man could treat me so badly (I’ve seen it all previously from exes my age!!)